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January 20, 2020
For Someone I Like

For Someone I Like

Nestled on the corner of St. 135 and St.460 in Phnom Penh’s Tuol Tompong district sits the whimsically named boutique, For Someone I like.  This little shop is a treasure trove of beautiful trinkets, quality homegoods, and finely crafted jewelry. But what makes the items on offer truly special is their deep connection to Cambodia.  That connection is the soul of the shop. Shop owner Leakhena goes to great lengths to ensure that the products she features are crafted with Cambodian materials and/or forged by generational artisans. This is no easy task, as Cambodian craftsmanship was decimated during the Khmer Rouge, and youth today show little interest in reviving the artisanal methodologies of days past.  Yet for Leakhena the motivation to build partnerships with local artisans and showcase their wares in her shop is deeply personal. When her mother passed away 7 years ago she realized she knew little about Cambodian culture. To remedy this, she made the bold decision to move to Cambodia and get to know it well enough to be able to call it “home.”

When you visit  For Someone I Like and delve into its meticulously curated goods, you immediately feel that there’s an intention to showcase Cambodia’s artisanal history.  I sat down with Leakhena to talk about her Cambodian roots and how maintaining a connection to her mother evolved into a meaningful curio shop.   


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Shop owner Leakhena (right) and assistant Manovong


Can you tell me a little bit about your background and how you started For Someone I like?

I am Khmer, born in Phnom Penh, raised in the U.S. My family made the arduous journey to the refugee camp when I was nine months old and remained there until I was four.  Naturally, this shaped so much of my identity. 

I studied International Relations at an American university in Paris, with the hope that I could join the United Nations or the handful of organizations that were so pivotal in the lives of people like myself. I even spent an entire summer interning for an NGO in Phnom Penh.

After my studies however, I moved to New York City and fell into private sector work and there started my actual work experience in marketing for a big French luxury group.  Although, at first I was disappointed at not landing a job of ‘service’, I eventually came to appreciate and love my job and started to build out business skill sets that would become important as an entrepreneur.

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Limited-edition art prints and woven goods made in Cambodia are available in the shop

What was your intention when starting your business? 

After eight years in NYC, I moved to PP four years ago with the intention of setting up the infrastructure/manufacturing for my own brand and commuting between both countries.  

The ethos that governs the shop today has always been there, even in those early days, which was to create a socially-minded business that helped to preserve the heritage of Khmer handicrafts.  

After a year or so of research on the availability of raw materials and local artisan capabilities, I met so many wonderful people and also came to realize that so many creative products/brands existed in Cambodia; and yet what a shame that there was not one permanent place you could find all these unique locally produced goods, with the exception of a few seasonal bazaars.

The idea of a brick and mortar shop, showcasing local, creative, handmade work from the community, began to form and overtake the personal brand I had prior envisioned.

It was my Khmer pride that took over my well thought out business plan! 


A hand-carved Buddha is just one of many special finds at For Someone I Like

Why do you feel it’s important to feature Cambodian artisans?

My number one goal in opening the shop is to have an inspirational cocoon for the local community and to help re-instill pride for Khmer-made ideas and products. We have long looked outside to other countries and cultures for inspiration. I want Cambodia to also be a source of inspiration and pride for the community, especially for Khmer youth hoping to work in the creative space. 

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Leakhena goes to great lengths to source items made by generational artisans.

Who are your customers?  What brings them to your shop?

My customers are mostly all local. A much bigger percentage of expats versus local Khmer, but we are starting to have more and more young Khmer creatives coming in now, interested in the space, concept, and products. I believe everyone that is drawn to the shop is looking for unique quality goods that are locally produced. They are looking for goods with soul – the opposite feeling of mass consumption.

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Who has influenced you as a business owner?  

My personal heroes are my parents for many reasons. The more obvious reason is that they were both artists and therefore influenced my love of art, design, and culture. My father was a painter, sculptor, and jeweler in his youth, and currently has a career as a lighting designer. And my mother, both a Royal University of Fine Arts graduate and teacher, was a traditional dancer and film star. I have been dancing and touring Cambodian classical and folk dance before I could walk. Exposure to Khmer culture started at a very young age for me. The appreciation and pride however, came much later (thank you, mom!).

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This unbeatable duo is a wealth of knowledge.

What are some of your favorite items that you carry in your shop?

My favorite items in the shop are mostly vintage, antique, or specialty objects like the numerous hand-carved silver vessels. Things were made with such care before and that is something that I truly appreciate and am passionate about.

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So many beautiful treasures!

Why do you place a great emphasis on ethically made/sustainable items?

I don’t think there’s any other way to do business these days. Before the days of social media sharing, perhaps there was a lack of information and therefore a lack of knowledge. But these days you are equipped with knowledge of the negative consequences of doing business at the expense of people and the environment. Not to mention there is a great overall feeling to participate in a movement of positive impact.

Perusing rare vintage items juxtaposed with ethically crafted modern trinkets, it’s easy to see that Leakhena has a passion for Cambodia’s past as well as for its future. Next time you need a gift for someone you like, you now know exactly where to go.

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2020 Vision

January 10, 2020


So, it’s been awhile since I last visited this space. I must say, I have missed it tremendously, but at the same time I felt I had some growing to do before I could come back and pick up where I left off.  


For starters, we moved to Cambodia. I stepped away from my usual freelance/blog writing to learn some Khmer and volunteer at the Indochina Starfish Foundation as well as for the Cambodian Children’s Fund.  Each organisation welcomed me into their fold and afforded me the opportunity to teach and/or write for them. Volunteering everyday was challenging and rewarding in equal measure, but I find this mix yields the best kind of personal growth. 


Worker at the Russian Market in Phnom Penh

Cambodia’s traumatic past still sits on the horizon of its citizens’ collective consciousness, and I didn’t feel it would be right to jump right in and begin writing about this country without first really getting to know it.

I knew this would take some time.

Thus, I have moved gently and patiently towards understanding what challenges Cambodians face here and now.  

I won’t pretend to have the answers.  What I can offer now, from a vantage point of admiration, is a tiny portal into the inner workings of this beautiful, chaotic, and ultimately resilient place. Cambodia is a place where the human spirit, much like the ancient wonders that permeate its landscape, perseveres.  

I hope you will stick around and enjoy the view.

Tuk Tuk Transportation


Little Girl in a Tuk Tuk

Little Girl in a Tuk Tuk


Streets of Phnom Penh

Streets of Phnom Penh

Caught in traffic




When the Flame Goes Out

December 21, 2016

pics-for-flame-blog2016 has been a year of tremendous struggle.  Big things and little things alike have not gone as planned.  It has been a challenge to understand why and how people can be so searingly hostile to both the planet as well as to each other.

But, all of this is not meant to be understood. Endeavoring to understand or rationalize our current circumstance serves as a distraction that not only misuses time, but also generates anguish.

Our present conditions are a call to action, but along with the donations we make and the volunteer work we do, we must not neglect the inner world that ultimately frames our external experience.

Nurture inner peace.  It is the simplest and most effective form of dissent.

Only when we have quieted our minds and pacified our broken hearts,  can we find the compassion it requires to move beyond diversion and find common ground.

When it seems the flame within your soul has gone out, take a deep breath, and light another match.


Malaysia Makers: Aini Ali & Martin Naf

May 17, 2016

Beautiful rings by Aini Ali

Tucked away on Jl. Lorong Burhanuddin Helmi, nestled behind a charming turquoise gate, sits a quiet jewelry studio where bohemian treasures abound.


Inside  Aini and Martin’s studio.

The space is the brainchild of Aini Aili and Martin Naf.  It seems fate brought these kindred spirits together as Aini Ali had an interest in pursuing metalsmithing yet found herself frustrated with how difficult it was to find a teacher. No sooner had she relayed her vexation to her boyfriend than she met Martin Naf, an artisan with over 30 years of experience in the trade.  The two hit it off immediately and have been working side-by-side ever since.


Master metalsmith Aini Ali


This year the duo opened up their own studio space where they can nurture the collaborative nature of their partnership while working independently.  Their individual designs complement each other and give their customers a vast and beautiful assortment of one-of-a-kind trinkets to choose from.

Ring by Aini Ali

Aini’s work is striking yet feminine.  Drawing inspiration from her surroundings and their associated energies, cultures, emotions, and experiences, her work is imbued with detail and meaning.  I especially love how many of the details in her work are apparent only to the wearer of the piece.  Her work traverses simple adornment, serving instead as the kind of keepsake you adore for a lifetime.


The back of this ring features a delicate petal motif.


Aini at work.



Another thoughtful detail by Aini.

Martin’s unique and unparalleled skill set comes across in every piece he crafts.  Everything is done by hand, including the making of the sheet metal the pair employs.  Taking this extra step ensures that the quality of the silver they use remains unquestionably high.  The resulting rings, pendants, and bracelets have an organic feel and tribal aesthetic.


Martin Naf melting down metal.


Travel has served as a muse for Martin, who has ventured all over the globe selling his jewelry and teaching others his craft along the way.  His work is steeped in rich texture and often features the alluring gemstones he’s collected abroad.


A pendant by Martin Naf.


In the studio with Martin Naf.

Both artisans have an unwavering passion for making incredible pieces that are also wholly affordable.  With today’s emphasis on buying local and supporting homegrown artisans, there is really no need to purchase something that comes in a Tiffany blue box, when something absolutely special can be found behind a turquoise gate. I think Frida Kahlo would agree.

For further info please visit:

Aini Ali’s Etsy page

Martin Naf on Instagram

Martin Naf’s Blog

Aini Ali on Instagram


Flossy Takes Flight: Exporting Our Dog from Malaysia

May 11, 2016

As we near the end of our time in Malaysia it became necessary to ship our wonderful Golden Retriever back to the homeland.  The process of figuring out which routes were best and which company to use was arduous. Flossy is a ball of nerves when it comes to traveling.  A 45 minute car ride stresses her out, so the prospect of sending her across the globe was a source of much anxiety.  We wanted her to have a safe and comfortable journey, but needed to keep costs reasonable as well.

Flossy : )

Flossy : )

Thankfully, I can now happily say that Flossy is safe and sound in the U.S. keeping my mom company until we can once again be reunited.

Bearing in mind that this is my experience and the information I’m sharing is accurate to the best of my knowledge, here is what I learned along the way.

Pet Transport Companies

Kuala Lumpur International Airport (KLIA) does not allow pets on the premises.  So traveling with Flossy was not an option.  Also heat restrictions prohibit the shipment of pets out of KL from May 15-September 15, and made it necessary for us to ship Flossy a few weeks ahead of our summer travel dates.  Furthermore, certain paperwork can only be executed by a pet agent, so there is really no getting around hiring someone to assist you with the process.

I wanted to find a reliable, trustworthy, and reasonably priced pet agent.  I asked friends, Facebook groups, and our local vet for advice.  These were the three pet relocation experts that came up consistently:

  1. Pet’s Pet Taxi
  2. Armstrong Pet Moving
  3. Dr. C. Sockalingam , Yarl Livestock Services {email: | mobile: +601-237-15566}

I emailed each and found all to be responsive. I asked for a price quote as well as some general questions concerning which route would be best for Flossy.  When researching online, I found that routes through Amsterdam and Doha were recommended.  Dr. Sockalingam was the only one to answer my questions thoroughly, and his price quote was several thousand ringgit cheaper than the others as well.  Dr. Sockalingam explained that flying Flossy through Doha would be a great option as the cost of her ticket would stay low, while the quality of her care would remain high.

Of course I researched this online and called the cargo department of Qatar Airways in Doha directly to make sure that she would in fact be in caring hands for the duration of her trip.  The airline associate that I spoke with was friendly and professional.  She explained that Qatar Airways’ facilities in Doha include a temperature controlled holding area where food and water is provided hourly (up to two hours before their flight), as well as a vet on hand who checks on each animal, and they clean the animal’s crate before the flight.  All of this was very reassuring to hear.

The journey ahead seemed daunting.

The journey ahead seemed daunting.


Flight Preparation

Dr. Sockalingam came to our place a couple of weeks prior to her scheduled departure date to give Flossy a check-up and make sure her paperwork was in order.  Flossy instantly took to him.  I think she would have left with him if I would have let her!  Since Flossy was already microchipped and all of her vaccinations were up to date she was good to go!

Travel Tips

I attached two water dispensers to her crate along with a bowl for holding her food.  Since her journey to Washington, D.C. was going to be a long one, I duct taped four individually zip locked portions of food (with treats inside buried in the mix) to the top of her crate.

I also decorated the front of her crate with her name.  I wanted her handlers to know her name in hopes that it might comfort her along the way.  According to my mom, when Flossy arrived in Dulles everyone around her was calling her by name and she was wagging her tail right and left!

Flossy's travel crate.

Flossy’s travel crate.

I took two Polaroid pics of her and inserted them in Ziploc bags and taped them to the front of her crate. In the unlikely event that she escaped from her crate (you read some harrowing stories online!) people would know her name/what she looked like.

Finally, I placed a towel in Flossy’s crate to remind her of home and hopefully increase her sense of well-being.

Qatar Airways Cargo Tracking allows you to track your air cargo online.  I followed Flossy’s itinerary and saw she was on schedule for each of her flights.

Air Cargo tracking provides peace of mind.

Air Cargo tracking provides peace of mind.


It was a nerve-racking couple of days as I sat waiting to hear that Flossy had indeed arrived safely.  Flossy arrived in Dulles happy and surprisingly clean.  As it turns out she wasn’t nearly as stressed out as I was!  Thanks to Dr. Sockalingam her trip was a complete success.

Flossy is now enjoying her temporary new digs in the U.S.A. Thanks Mom!

Flossy is now enjoying her temporary new digs in the U.S.A. Thanks Mom!

Mala Making with Moolamala

May 3, 2016


Looking to do something unique and creative with my daughter Ava,  I signed us up for a mala making class with  Jiawen Loo.  Jiawen is the owner and creative force behind Moolamala. In addition to leading mala workshops, she makes beautiful intention-driven jewelry.

mala making with jiawen loo

I love natural rocks and gemstones, as well as making things by hand.  Luckily Ava does too, so the two of us were excited to learn the craft of mala making.

Fellow student Khim selecting her rudraksha beads.

Fellow student Khim selecting her rudraksha beads.

Malas are essentially a tool used in meditation or prayer.  For Buddhists, with each of the approximately 108 beads in the mala you repeat your mantra.  Personally, when I meditate I don’t use a mala, but I do find them useful as a daily reminder to stay present and engaged in the now.  This is what I hoped to encourage in Ava.

Ava hard at work.

Ava hard at work.

Khim with her beautiful mala.

Khim with her beautiful mala.

Mala making takes time and patience.  Fortunately Jiawen is the perfect teacher for this task, as she is as gentle and serene as they come.  She demonstrated how to go about tying each tiny knot with humor and grace.

Jiawen demonstrating how to tie the knots.

Jiawen demonstrating how to tie the knots.

We began by taking a few moments to write down our intention in making the piece.  By writing down a personal affirmation and remaining centered on it throughout the process, it becomes a part of the mala much like the beads themselves.

Our intention cards.

Our intention cards.

After penning our intentions, we got down to the business of crafting our malas.

Fellow student Sumitra organizing her beads.

Fellow student Sumitra organizing her beads.

Ava working her magic.

Ava working her magic.

Jiawen in action.

Jiawen in action.

Our malas were based around a string of rudraksha beads, with gemstone accents and the guru bead selected by each student.  When faced with a beautiful buffet of gemstones, I had the hardest time deciding which ones to choose.  Jiawen reminded me that my first mala need not be too precious and that I should just begin with one color and see where it leads.  To whittle down my choices, I called to mind one of my favorite landscapes and let that guide my color choice.  For me the desert always inspires a sense of peace and purpose, thus I selected muted and earthy toned stones, with a larger pyrite bead for my guru bead.

So many beauties to choose from!

So many beauties to choose from!

This is my kind of candy bowl.

This is my kind of candy bowl.

Ava took to the process with little direction.  She’s always had a gift for choosing an unexpectedly beautiful color scheme.  Whether it be for a picture she’s drawing or decorating her room, she definitely doesn’t have my decision-making paralysis!

This is the color palette I decided on.

This is the color palette I decided on.

It took the two of us about 5 hours to complete our creations.  Ava was elated with how hers turned out.  The bright pink, yellow, and turquoise stones really matched her sanguine personality.

The finished products! Mine {left} & Ava's

The finished products! Mine {left} & Ava’s

I was really pleased with the outcome of mine as well.  With Jiawen’s guidance my knots were tight and even, and while my mala was not entirely perfect (somehow my center bead ended up not centered), it was definitely perfect for me.

Fellow intention seekers: our mala making class : )

Fellow intention seekers at Jiawen’s {center} mala making workshop : )

For information on Jiawen’s Mala Making Classes please visit:

Mala Making Workshops



April 4, 2016

The urban jungle had been taking a heavy toll of late.  Wanting to get away from KL’s traffic and haze we headed to a place we fell in love with last year during the Rhythms of Rimba Festival–Sandakan.  Three hours away by airplane, Sandakan is a sleepy town where nature abounds and tranquility prevails.

Rainforest Discovery Centre

Rainforest Discovery Centre

We started our trip at the Sepilok B & B,  which is a lovely place to decompress and enjoy nature.  The accommodations are very basic, but also spacious and clean.  The Pitta Lodge easily accommodated our family of five with two bedrooms, a living room, balcony and small kitchen.  I love falling asleep (and waking up) to the sounds of nature, and that’s exactly what you can do here.  The food is also very tasty and the staff extremely warm and friendly. We truly enjoyed our time there.

A snapshot of the living room in the Hornbill Lodge

A snapshot of the living room in the Hornbill Lodge

Another advantage to staying at the Sepilok B & B is that is close to several attractions.  The Rainforest Discovery Centre is within walking distance and is a great place for bird watching.  Guided tours are available.  At dusk we headed to the observation point and spotted a flying squirrel.  These monkey-sized squirrels climb to the treetops and essentially  base jump down, which is a spectacular thing to behold.

Sandakan at dusk

Sandakan at dusk

The Bornean Sun Bear Conservation Centre and Seplilok Orangutan Rehabilitation Centre are adjacent destinations that are a short  (and traffic-free!) car ride away.  Here you can spot rescued sun bears lazing about and get an up-close view of rehabilitated orangutans.  For the kids, seeing the outdoor nursery (the very one featured on the TV show Meet the Orangutans) where baby orangutans tease and play with each other was a highlight of the trip.

Orangutans roam freely around this center.

Orangutans roam freely around this center.

While this is an amazing place, it is heartbreaking to remember that the very reason these animals need rescuing is due to humans destroying their habitat.  Seeing these animals up-close really brought home how precious wildlife is, and how we need to take steps everyday to help remedy the destruction.

Sun Bears at the Bornean Sun Bear Conservation Centre

Sun Bears at the Bornean Sun Bear Conservation Centre

Orangutan in action

The next night we left the comfort of the B & B to head deep into the jungle to visit the Danau Girang Field Research Centre.  It took about 2 hours by car followed by 40 minutes by boat to reach the centre, which is doing amazing work in the conservation of countless rainforest species.

Danau Girang Field Research Centre

Danau Girang Field Research Centre

Accommodations here are a bit rough for city-dwellers like us, with shared showers and dorm-style rooms, no hot water, and extremely limited electricity (the generator is turned off at night, and runs for only a few hours during the day), BUT the experience was like no other.  We took a boat ride along the river and spotted crocodiles, wild boars, hornbills, sea eagles, proboscis monkeys, long tailed macaques, silvery lutungs,  to name a few.

Sea eagles in the treetops.


Proboscis Monkeys in the wildProboscis Monkeys in the wild

Proboscis Monkeys in the wild

wild boars in borneo

Monitor Lizard

Monitor Lizard

Then at night we took a hike through the rainforest to see beautiful birds sleeping on branches, a pit viper, a tarantula, frogs, scorpions, and many more wild creatures.  The rainforest is a different place at night.  Our guides pointed out animals hidden in plain sight and were exceedingly patient with all of our questions.

Boat ride Borneo

Vibrant and teeming with life, we navigated the darkness with headlamps firmly in place.  Experiencing this wild landscape in a completely new way was an unforgettable experience.

Wild orangutan at Danau Girang

Wild orangutan at Danau Girang

As we left Danau Girang we spotted a wild orangutan in the trees above us.

After our incredible night at Danau Girang, we headed back to Sepilok for the remainder of our time in Sandakan.

The food at Lindung Gallery Restaurant was incredible.

The food at Lindung Gallery Restaurant was incredible.

The food and atmosphere at Lindung Gallery Restaurant was so good we visited twice during our stay.  The five of us are vegans/vegetarians while our accompanying friends are not, but we all found something to love on the menu.

Sim Sim Village Restaruant

Sim Sim Village Restaruant

Sandakan is famous for its seafood, so for our friends the trip would not be complete without a visit to a local seafood place.  Sim Sim Village offered delicious vegetarian options while also satisfying our friends’ cravings.  Set in a water village, this open air restaurant is a great place to relax and enjoy the sunset.

View from Balin Rooftop Bar & Bistro

View from Balin Rooftop Bar & Bistro

Another excellent spot enjoy a great meal and beautiful view is the Balin Rooftop Bar & Bistro. Brought to you by the same folks behind Lindung Gallery Restaurant, this little place offers sumptuous desserts, creative cocktails, and a bird’s eye view of Sandakan.  It’s definitely worth stopping in to treat yourself to something great.

proboscis monkey

proboscis monkey sandakan

There are very few places in the world where you can see proboscis monkeys.  Their dietary needs are so specific that they don’t fare well in captivity.  The Labuk Bay Proboscis Monkey Sanctuary feeds these wild monkeys twice a day on platforms such that onlookers can get a great view of these strange creatures. Proboscis monkeys have features so unique and  mannerisms so human like, that they are fascinating to watch.  Don’t forget to bring sunscreen and a hat/umbrella as the feeding platforms are located within the grounds of a palm oil plantation and it can be quite a hot walk in the afternoon.

hornbill in flight

sea eagles in flight

We headed to a local market to pick up some fresh fruit to enjoy.  Sandikan market

sandikan marketMuch like the town itself, the market was a friendly and colorful place to spend some time.

sandikan market

This kind lady asked me to take her picture.

This kind lady asked me to take her picture.


A trip to Sandakan was just what the doctor ordered.  After being fully immersed in the sights and sounds of nature, we felt ready to once again face the urban landscape.  If you get the chance I highly recommend visiting this engaging and wholly interesting town.  Whether your pleasure is food, bird watching, or nature walks, Sandakan will definitely leave you wishing you had a couple more days to spend in this enchanting place.

Mount Kinabalu

Mount Kinabalu

Sandakan was a refreshing adventure!


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